Man, guys I'm tearing up here.
If we're giving marital advice here now also, I'll throw in my 2 cents too. In every dissagreement, I ask myself, "Is this hill worth dying for?" The answer is usually "No". Don't sweat the small stuff.
If you think you need to change her or save her, you married the wrong chic. The only person you're capable of changing is yourself. And most of us are not very good at that.
The intelligent man will admit his faults. If not to his JeepChic, to himself and God. And he will diligently try to become a better man.
Finally, NO ONE, NO THING has the power to make you happy. That power is held by you ONLY. Happiness is not determined by surroundings. It is a DECISION that can only be made by you.
Sorry if I sound "preachy". I got chewed out by a client today, had to bust a$$ on a rush case, had to work late, got chewed out by my mom, got thrown up on by my son. In all, a pretty good day. This is life.
Joey