I have an '89 Wrangler Sahara with the 4.2L and AX-15 (yes you've got the 15 too.) If you have not yet replaced your clutch I highly recomend doing so after 120k miles. A Centerforce Stage 1 shouldn't cost much more than $110 and is an excellent choice. Your problem sounds to me like your Slave Cylinder is going bad and leaking. If you bleed the hydraulics line and refil it and it shifts well again then that is your problem. Try shifting without pushing in your clutch. Pull it out of gear (this may require hitting the gas a little) and then GENTLY push it towards the next gear. If your going from 2nd to 1st you should almost be at a dead stop before it will go in. The slave cylinder is internal so its a pain to replace and should be done alongside with the clutch while you'lve got the transmission down