You are making a good attempt to describe the problem....I'm not sure I follow it exactly....but I have done this a couple of times....when your putting the gasket on from underneath it seems backwards....the side (pan) gaskets have a tab that fits between the bottom rear seal and the block. About the only way to get it in is use RTV to stick the pan gaskets to the block, then you can put the pan up in position...the rear seal will then fit over the tabs of the pan gasket.....
I guess this is about as clear as your description....hope it helps.
John......southern CA
84CJ7, 3"lift, 32"BFG, 4.10's, ARB Locker, Solid Axle's, Durabak
I guess this is about as clear as your description....hope it helps.
John......southern CA
84CJ7, 3"lift, 32"BFG, 4.10's, ARB Locker, Solid Axle's, Durabak