[352]

Well....like the title says, she's gone. Now I have to deal with the kids. The twins are 3 and realy aren't asking to many questions. My oldest son is 10 and has already started the "I'm moving in with Mom" crap to try and get his own way. My nerves are shot. I haven't slept or ate in 2 days. I hope things start to get better soon.

 

[1100]

I really don't know what to say...except that I am sorry to hear of this bad news. As your Suzuki family, we are here for you if/when you need anything.

Sean DeVinney

 

[Shrock]

Hang in there man and keep telling yourself that things will work out even better than before in the end, because they will.

Jim

 

[2249]

I'm sorry to hear of the bad news..... THEY SAY everything happens for a reason!!! hang in there it will all get better before you know it!!!!

 

[1120]

a liftime ago the same thing happned to me. All I can say is I servived and so did my Kids. I had Twin boys still in dipars and a daughter . Yes I about went NUTS and was VERY hard on my kids becous as you said your nervers are shot as mine were a good bit of the time. All I can say is Try to rember to be LOVING and understanding towards your Kids , they are suffering to. I Very much regret being so hard on them at a very early age. I have since aplogized to them and have a very good relationship with them . They are all grown now and have kids of their own. If you have family around you don't hasitate to ask for help. I found a good wife after a couple of YEARS who helped me raise them and one more we had together and we are still married and will be till the End.
Hang in there , You'll make it!
P.S~ If she left ~ she wasn't worth keeping!!!!! (speaking from experiance)

 

[1020]

Hi Jeff,

Sorry to hear of your loss but keep in mind that God has aplan for you and your kids and that he never puts more on our plates then we can handle.

Tom
lilsammy4x4

 

[hedo]

Wow sorry to hear what happen to you. Same thing happen to me over 3 years ago but mine took the kids and wiped out all of our bank accounts. It was hard but I stayed true to my kids. I fought in court to get my kids and got them 46% of the time and have a great relationship with them. I also found a new lady that loves my zuk and goes wheeling with me. My ex is now 182k in debt and kicked out the guy she ran off with and now is looking to file bank ruptsy. Life can be a do over and and you can make it. I am living prof 3 years later just hang in things will get better.

 

[352]

Thanks for the kind words and encouragement. It seems that once again the suzki world is my escape. Even yesturday as I was helping her move out and watched her take the first XL-7 load of stuff away, I decided to call Rock Rat and work on Gon Zookin. As we spoke and shared Zook stories I started to feel better. I never onced mentioned my current situation, not because I didn't feel like it, but because I temporarily wasn't worried about it.

My hobbie is what is getting me through this. That is why I posted this here. This bbs is like an extended family.

Thanks Again,
Jeff

 

[freebird01]

again man if there is anything i can do just give me a hollar....i am finally moved into my new house and am just in the reorganize clean up mode so ill have some more time. i also got a spare bedroom if you want to get away for a night and mess with zooks....mine still needs an engine lol

my new number is 570-547-1318...just give me a buzz

as red green would say...

"hang in there...were all pullin for ya...keep your stick on the ice"

Jason

 

[Yankee Tim]

Hey Jeff,

Man, I feel for ya. Things change. Change with them.

Look forward to haning with friends and goold company. I you need me, just call. If you need company, you can head on out anytime.

Chin up.

 

[352]

Tim,

I need to get up your way soon. I've got to pick up a radiator from Craig. I'll give ya a call tomarrow if my phone is working

Dang thing keeps going in and out. Good news is I think I might be getting a couple Samurais. As soon as Uncle Sam deposits my refund. Now the wife won't be screamin about my junk in the back yard. I tried to tell her that they were part of the Zook plyground for the kids but I don't think she bought into that idea.

 

[731]

Jeff- man, i dont even know what i would do if Mitch left me and Jakoby. I would be a wreck to say the least. Find comfort in friends and please think about counsiling for you and your children. there is nothing the matter with telling your issues to someone and getting help. I didn't check your profile to see what state you are in, but a lot of states will provide a therapist for your children for little to no charge thru CPS (child protective services) Or if you have insurance, they may have something that you can take advantage of thru your employer. My shop lets you have three visits on their dime if you need some help.
I am currently in counsiling and on medication to for depression and i thank GOD everyday for the strength to pick up the phone and ask for help.
GOOD luck, god will take care of you and yours.
love Rae

 

[1825]

Keep your chin up - I'm going through the same thing. You go fight one little war and your wife leaves you while you're gone fighting for country. I'm thankful that we didn't have children. Just remember there's a lot of us going through this - it's not just you. People survive this everyday - we will too. Just keep going, out of spite if nothing else.

 

[wildweasel]

DO NOT EVER let the state into any part of your life if you can help it! I know Rae means well but that can be a real mess if you get a zealot for a case worker. find a therapest through your doctor or insurance.

And hang in there dude. You will like the changes I am making to the tracker.

 

[1120]

Was thinking the same thing STAY AWAYFROM THE GOVERMENT !!!!!!!! If you need help get it from a privet sorce or family and frinds!!!!

 

[CrowHorse]

In reply to:

I never onced mentioned my current situation, not because I didn't feel like it, but because I temporarily wasn't worried about it.

[/ QUOTE ]

Why Worry ..........

40% Of the things I worry about will never happen, for anxiety is the result of a tired mind.

30% Concern old decisions which cannot be altered.

12% center in criticisms, mostly untrue, made by people who feel inferior.

10% is related to my health which worsens while I worry.

08% is legitimate, showing that life does have real problems which may be met head on when I have eliminated senseless worries.

--- Found at Sunlight of the Spirit