Ok, my two cents because this stuff is going on all the time and sometimes im on the otherside sometimes im on the right side. We all have bad days, maybe the jerkoff that came up and started hitting your friend was in the zone? My question to you is why didnt you drive away before he could approach the car? If he hits your car, then its your problem and you can/should make the choice to defend yourself. Did you call the police? Did you help your friend at all? Did the guy live there or nearbye? What kind of neighborhood where you in?
You are right about the law. My brother is a police officer and i on the other hand have a long and detailed history for "volunteer work" for our system. We both agree though that the law is typically unfair and judges make a mockery of the law. I was once taken to court for crimes that i wont put down except to say this, they were not rape, but they were equivelent to murder/manslaughter. Equivelent but not the same. I sat in jail for quiet some time for lack of bail. Purchased my own attorney for what ended to be a 12,000.00 bill at the end of a three day trial. I was sentenced to 9 years in prison with no goodtime allowed. It took over 2 years to win my appeals. I won because in court i had 22 constitutional violations in the COURT PROCESS alone, not including detective work, the fact they found the people responsible and neglected to mention that during the trial as EXCULPLITORY evidence , that means proof of innocence. There in all were 47 reasons that pointed to proved my innocence and all were overlooked or hidden by the police. My brother was disgusted at the whole thing. The detective tried to twist his own wording, but my brother stood up in court and pointed the manipulation out which still didnt help. I won my appeals in circuit court all the way to state supreme court. Each time i won the DA would appeal the winning keeping me in prison for that much longer. When i did win i recieved a settlement for being locked up, but let me tell you from my own experience. No matter the dollar amount given, it cannot replace the loss of confidence i have for my country. It cannot replace the loss of friends or property that went away while i was going thru this. But i do know this, you cannot rely on the judicial system. I came out of prison with more knowlege on how to break the law, then if i had wanted to be a criminal all my life before. And because i had such a class a felony when the prison became overcrowded, i was tossed into a lottery and moved out of state with murder's / baby rapists / and sexual murder's of the worst possible sort. I have had breakfast lunch and dinner with the i-5 killer, reputed greenriver killer, and ever shawn eckhart of the tanya harding incedent. What a fairy punk he was always staying in his cell because people kept on kicking his ass. Ive seen every sort of violence under the sun that a man can do to another hand to hand/foot/razor tied with dental floss to a plastic toothbrush for a handle, and it never ceases to amaze me why people choose to use violence over words. If you are unable to adaquetly express yourself, then prison will be the place for you. Believe me, if you think carrying a gun is going to solve your problems, wait till you shoot someone and you think your dead to rights in self defence and then you end up doing 5 years because thats the lightest sentence youll get from a judge for manslaughter (not my situation) I have seen that so many times its like seeing toyota's on the road. In there you dont talk sh!t becuase someone will check you before you can finish the sentence. IF you are too mouthy they will knock you out put your mouth on the toilet rim and kick you in the back of the head so your jaw is broken and you swallow your teeth and sometimes the tounge.
Not to get into too much detail, just to say this, dont rely on justice or the law. This is a fact, we live in a country that has the highest by MANY TIMES the number of people locked up per capita then any other country in the world. And we are the nation that boasts of freedom? And please no iggnorant flames of "if i dont like it i can leave it" because I am trying for one, but what country takes a man with a record? Yeah i still have one, from the fact that even though i went thru a retrial and won, it shows as past history. That and when im done with school hopefully i can spend some time out of the country working, and come back to retire. Dont get me wrong. I like the country, but the judicial system leaves something to be desired....