If you still want good on-road ride and handling stay under 4.5" of lift, 32"s and a SYE, get an SYE no matter what you do, saves you from doing rear seals all the time like me...I would have to say go with an RE kit, almost everyonme here will tell you that, I should have but money was tight and I wanted to lift, so I got Rusty's cheap 3" lift and am happy with it but didnt get a full 3"...Now I need to ask everyone a ?...I have a chance to get front coils, shocks, control arm drop brakets and track bar brackets off a Trailmaster 4" kit...Is it worth it??? Its free, all I have to do is put my 3" under this other xj as a swap....thanks and good luck with your new obsession(sp?)....andy