I'm sorry, I don't quite follow your trouble shooting you've done. I believe the easiest way to narrow down where the trouble lies is as follows:
1) engage 4wd
2) set the parking brake and jack up 1 front wheel
3) attempt to rotate that wheel
If all is well with the world you will not be able to spin it. If you can, the trouble lies just past the last rotating part. (IE: if the driveshaft spins, the problem is in the transfer case. if the axle shaft is the last rotating part, it may be your front diff or central axle disconnect, if so equipped)
1) engage 4wd
2) set the parking brake and jack up 1 front wheel
3) attempt to rotate that wheel
If all is well with the world you will not be able to spin it. If you can, the trouble lies just past the last rotating part. (IE: if the driveshaft spins, the problem is in the transfer case. if the axle shaft is the last rotating part, it may be your front diff or central axle disconnect, if so equipped)